Children are not one-size-fits-all. In order for kids to have their individual needs met we must understand who they are and how they are uniquely them. It’s extremely helpful to have general categories by which to group related traits (even while recognizing that not each child checks the same boxes) so that we can better seek out the information that will help us best parent and educate them.
Each child may be a gift, but each child is not the SAME gift and children with different brain wiring need a different approach.
Understanding EACH child is how to be loving, not dismissing the things that make them who they are for the sole purpose of supporting harmful ideology.